"Once you go black, you never go back". Maybe you've already heard this phrase? What is it about hotwives having interracial sex with big, black men, or cuckolding their submissive husbands with a well-endowed black bull? Often, BBCs are refered to as "Alphas". And cuckold husbands as "Betas". Let's dive deep into the historical background of interracial sex. And what makes it so appealing today.
What's a BBC?
The term 'BBC' is an acronym for 'Big Black Cock'. It is a stereotype, that black men have larger penises than their white counterparts. Dating a black bull plays with this stereotype of the hotwife in search of a man, who is better endowed than her husband at home.
But not all can and should be reduced to a bull's penis size. Interracial dating makes it clear to the cuckold, and the public, simply because of the different skin color, that the hotwife is looking for something her cuckold husband can never compete with. In this sense, interracial cuckolding with a BBC creates the biggest contrast, estranges the cuckoldress the most from her white home, and depicts the most exciting choice for a bull, she prefers over her inferior cuckold husband.
Why is Interracial Sex so Exciting?
In today's diverse world, interracial sex offers an exhilarating avenue for exploration and excitement. More and more women get curious about embracing this experience. And if you were to believe trends in online pornography, interracial sex is especially popular in cuckold forums and hotwife forums.
Interracial sex challenges societal norms. It fosters inclusivity and acceptance. It breaks down racial barriers that might still be valid in one's everyday life. Exploring intimacy with partners of different racial backgrounds allows women to celebrate diversity. Different cultures collide with each other.
The allure of the unknown adds to the excitement. And the contrast of different physical appearences add fuel to the fire. Discovering new desires and pleasures with someone of a different race can be thrilling and adventurous. It's an opportunity to broaden sexual horizons and push boundaries, leading to personal growth and self-discovery. And don't forget about the appeal of stereotypes, e.g. that black men have large penises.
But it's important to note, that the fantasy of hotwives who love BBC is mostly rooted in american pornography and hence its society. In its principal, interracial sex includes all kinds of ethnities and does not stop with blacks. Yet, interracial pornography is mostly dominated by hotwives being blacked, not cuckold couples searching for an asian bull. Maybe the reason lies in the market dominance of american culture and pornography worldwide along with its historic roots of cultural differences?
History's Perspective on Interracial Sex
There's an interesting Reddit thread called "An examination of Interracial Porn" in which the author tries to argue why interracial sex is mostly synonym for white women having sex with black men or BBCs:
The [...] category usually means that there will be a well endowed black or perhaps latino male engaging in sex with a petite white woman who is supposedly “demolished” by their large manhood. It’s cartoonishly ridiculous. This type of pornography reduces the black and brown male to nothing more than a Taboo sexual object, something to be praised for its animalism and brute strength. It’s a caricature of such males that dates all the way back to the antebellum south and beyond, where caucasian europeans believed that black and brown men, being inferior by nature were more ruled by their animalistic tendencies, and rapacious sexual appetites. As such caucasian women were typically kept away from such males for fear that they would be raped (because white women are obviously so attractive that the primitive black and brown men would not be able to control themselves around them—obvious sarcasm from me, but this was a genuinely held belief) perhaps it was caucasian male insecurity (toxic masculinity) that resulted in a sense of inferiority due to the athletic nature of the black and brown males of the lands they colonized. The fact that women tend to find athletic and well endowed men attractive may have been a reason for the projection colonial males placed on black and brown men. They were a threat to their masculine control of their women and so had to be kept down and in their place.
He continues to conclude that this is the reason why black men, having the pornographic traits, are called "Alphas", while white men, the so called "Betas", do not have such traits. And it seems that he has put his finger in the right wound. Interracial sex seems to be a topic laden with historical significance. As you can read in an article about "Interracial Sex" on encyclopedia.com the north american perspective on interracial sex traces back to seventeenth-century colonial America, when societal attempts to maintain the "purity" of the white race were evident through the criminalization of interracial relations. However, practical constraints, such as the scarcity of European women and the fluidity of racial categories, led to interracial encounters, particularly among European American men and non-European women. Over time, these encounters faced legal prohibition, primarily reflecting the rise of racial slavery and concerns about mixed-race offspring. Despite public condemnation, interracial liaisons were more prevalent than acknowledged. Notably, figures like Thomas Jefferson and his relationship with Sally Hemings exemplify this reality. Historians increasingly recognize the frequency of interracial sex, particularly in early American society, where discreet relationships were often tolerated.
Many of said historic interracial relationships and sexual encounters in North America were between white men and colored women. However, interracial sex between white women and black slave men occured, too, as Anon discusses in the published paper "Sexual Relations Between Elite White Women and Enslaved Men in the Antebellum South: A Socio-Historical Analysis" from 2013. Back then, housewifes of white, privileged plant-owners where regarded as the guardians of the home, responsible for upholding their traditional christian values. Women were considered to be inferior to their husbands, yet much more pure, moral and modest. The sexuality of white women was heavily regulated both by laws and culture. Meanwhile, white men were not punished as harshly for adultery. Enjoying their societal status, husbands and slave-owners often had extra-marital affairs with black female slaves. Or raped them. Mix-raced children were not uncommon on cotton plants and reminded the plant-owner's wife constantly of his betrayal and humiliated her.
[...] planter-class women were considered the property of their husbands (Hodes, 1997, p. 51). Their freedom and mobility was severely limited; for example, they were generally not allowed to travel without an older male chaperone (Clinton, p. 136). Spousal abuse was often considered a legitimate method for men to control their wives (Hodes, p. 72). Clinton calls Southern plantation mistresses “prisoners in disguise”.
In contrast, there aren't many stories about white women having affairs with black slaves or even raping them. Yet, it happened. In the last decades, it became increasingly clear, that women are, too, capable of committing sexual offenses and use sex as a means of dominance. Until now, many historians simply used to neglect the possibility of women being strong enough to physically rape black slaves because of common misconceptions and gender assumptions. But there are documentations about white women coercing blacks to interracial intercourse. And historians believe there are many more stories waiting to be told. Birth control and abortion was rare back then, yet accessible to upper class women.
Blacks were seen as lust-driven at that time. So for a white woman it was easier to accuse him of rape, if their sexual encountar ever came to be made public. In fact, white women even threatened black slaves to accuse them of rape, if they would not agree to sex with them. It is assumed, that compesating for their lack of power could be a reason for white housewifes enforcing interracial sex with their black slaves.
It is possible the sexual exploitation of slaves by women who had little power in relation to white men was a source of enjoyment that created a feeling of power. [...] This is not to excuse the actions of sexually abusive white women, nor is it to suggest that female sexual abuse of slave men would not have occurred had women enjoyed a higher status in society. However, just as slave-owning white women often took out their frustrations on slaves through excessive cruelty and violence, they probably also used sex as a means of domination and control in a society in which they were relatively powerless.
Interracial Parties
Once you enter the swinging lifestyle and get an overview of sex parties in swinger clubs or other establishments, you discover that parties commonly have a theme. And it is often a party's theme that defines the audience expected to be found at that party. There are parties for people under 30. Parties for bisexual couples. And there are parties for meeting blacks and BBC. Some of those parties are for example called "Black in White", "BBC Gang Bang" or "Interracial GangBang", "Black Toyboys", or simply "Big Dick" or something similar.
The party's organizers usually handpick their guest list and keep a strict eye on who is allowed to join. But this sounds more dramatic than it actually is as you usually encounter the same audience over and over again once you start visiting sex parties. And the same applies to interracial sex parties or black gangbang parties, as there are only so many BBCs living within the party's catchment area.
Interracial parties are a great way to discover a BBC bull in case you are a cuckold couple looking for one. Blacks visiting interracial parties are familiar with the cuckold lifestyle and the particular needs of cuckold couples. They are used to having husbands or partners around, when they seduce a white woman. And they are aware of the fact, that their appearance makes up a large part of the appeal.
Intrerracial Breeding
The term "cuckold" stems from the cuckoo bird, whose unique habit is to leave its eggs in the nests of other birds, tricking them into raising its chicks. A pivotal purpose of sex is reproduction, so it mustn't surprise that a popular fantasy of extreme cuckolds and cuckoldresses is for her to be impregranted by her bull. It is in a cuckold's immanent nature to long for humiliation. Browsing through all kinds of online cuckold forums, the rabbit's hole seems to be long and deep. Having to raise another man's child is as humiliating as cuckolding can be. An established term in cuckold forums for impregnating the hotwife tends to be "breeding". And this fantasy hits the nail on the head by putting the core purpose of sex at the center of the cuckold couple's motivation and having the cuckold follow his original nature.
Breeding becomes especially exciting and humiliating for the cuckold husband, when the hotwife is impregnated interracialy by a black bull. Having the cuckold witness the act is humiliating itself already, because he encounters the most intimate moment a woman can share with a man. And she prefers her lover over her cuckold hubby in that moment. But the outcome will be lasting and both the cuckold and the public will be reminded everyday, that that baby is not his own and his wife carried out another man's child right in front of him.
sinners & saints' Howto for Interracial Sex
Are you intrigued by the thought of experiencing interracial sex? Do you love the idea of contrasting skin colors when looking for a bull to humiliate your cucky husband with? You're not allone! Googling "interracial sex" in 2024 delivers approximately 2.230.000.000 results. Googling "interracial cuckold" 1.290.000.000 results. "Interracial cuckolding" delivers in 116.000.000 websites. And "interracial hotwife" 1.150.000.000 results. There are so many books about interracial hotwife stories, videos depicting hotwives with a BBC, fantasies of cuckolds about their cuckoldresses with black bulls, and real life experiences for you to read, view and discover. The internet is full of material, and all this information must seem overwhelming to you. How do you approach this topic?
First of all, take a step back, breathe in and out, and focus on what your overall goal is. Are you looking for a fling or a deeper connection? Do you fancy cultural contrast or someone, who shares your beliefs and cultural perspective? Do you want to experience the dominance of an alpha bull (who happens to be black) and submit to him in a growing BDSM relationship or just tease your cuckold husband with interracial dates from time to time?
In today's society dating a black man, or dating interracially in general, isn't particularly uncommon anymore. If you live in a bigger city, chances are there are lots of different interracial cultures crossing your path every day. If you only want to focus on black men, even then there are so many different geographical origins and cultures to choose from! Just think about how a stereotypical black american bull behaves, smells, feels, and dresses differently from a moroccan-french bull because of their disjunct cultural background. The way different cultures regard and treat women can be completely different from one another, especially when you also take different beliefs and education into account.
Your best bet to approach interracial dating and sex is to visit an appropriately themed interracial swinger's party. There, black bulls are aware of their physical appeal to women searching for a BBC and don't hesitate getting in contact with newcomers. You'd be surprised how charming and warm new people are welcomed in swinging communities and at such parties. It's easier to approach your curiousity for interracial sex in such a safe environment with people who share the same interests and are already more experienced than you.
Another safe bet is to start searching and dating BBCs and black bulls in online communities, that focus on matching women and blacks for interracial sex or interracial cuckolding even. Please avoid cuckold forums where members mostly upload pornography and interracial adult imagery. Established and proven black members are scarce in those cuckold forums and as a newcomer you are easily overwhelmed to distinguish real life from pure fantasies and made up stories.
On sinners & saints we do our best to be the #1 community for cuckolds, hotwives, and bulls alike by matching members with like-minded interests, sexual preferences, and kinks. Why don't you sign up now and learn about all black bulls in your area? Overall, it's free!